Thursday 19 January 2012


Honestly, this is my mid-life-find-my passion project and I am so excited.  My life in numbers (so far): student 18 years, accountant 17 years, wife 23 years, mother 16 years.  I am in search of something especially gratifying, but I can’t put me finger on it.  I am not yet a 140 character-max tweeter, so blogging would be a start in my somewhat public road to self-discovery (even though my children tell me it is outdated).  I am generally that crazy organized, pushy, get-what-I-want, demanding, multi-tasking type of person, but, I am compassionate, fair and socially conscience as well.  I am not going to start discussing topics like religion (one of my favourites), or equal rights and stereotypes (a passionate topic for me once I get started).  I’ll keep it somewhat light to start and see how it goes.  The question on your tongue really should be, why would my blog be so original or profound that it’s worth reading.  It really won’t be original or profound.  I am like you and I likely share many of your convictions, but the bottom line – I really love to vent, whether anyone is listening or not.  

Nicole

On Tuesday January 7, 2012 a conductor with the New York Philharmonic stopped the performance in the middle of Gustav Mahler’s Symphony No. 9 due to the ringing of a cell phone.  The performance was continued after the offender turned off his phone.  The conductor later explained that the piece goes quiet and is followed by a dramatic finish that would have  been spoiled by the interruption.  I would like to know how it is that people have become so rude and others complacent with the use of cell phones.  I, like the conductor, feel that my moment dramatic impact is ruined by my companion’s cell phone ring.  The fact that the ringing phone is answered is completely insulting.  We all believe that there are exceptions, my kids are home alone, waiting for a call, the office, my husband, and the list is endless.  What it comes down to is that your call is given preference over your audience.  Whatever happened before the cell phone?  Has it replaced babysitters?  Will the world end if someone had to actually wait for a call back at a more appropriate time?  Does your child’s inability to locate something to eat in your brimming refrigerator constitute an emergency?  I am not sure when we will stop, but certainly it has gotten completely out of hand.  Our children already sit in a room with their friends, texting instead of talking.  We are raising a generation of anti-social and taciturn children who, unfortunately, are learning by our example.

Tech Corner:


Computer Apps:

iProcrastinate - My boys are using this app to program in a colour coded course-by-course way, the assignments and test dates for school.  It is in a format that combines calendar and a to-do list. It’s available at the Mac App Store for free download.

iCal – A little trick I discovered in iCal is if you type in a description of an appointment followed by @ 10 am for example, iCal will enter a 1 hour appointment with the description you entered and slot it at 10 am saving you the trouble of editing.

Yahoo Sports – Our family is in a great fantasy hockey pool.  We scheduled a draft in which everyone participated.  We trade players and go head to head in friendly competition.  The online league tracks everything from hits to shut outs and all you have to do is manage your bench.  Not only is this fun, it created family discussion.  http://hockey.fantasysports.yahoo.com

iPhone Apps:

Bananagrams - I love word games, and this one is great fun.

MyFitnessPal - This app allows you to diarize your food intake and exercise routine.  You can scan barcodes on packaged food and look on a huge database of items to easily track your consumption.

Open Table - If you have not yet discovered this app, download it and register now.  It is a great way to make restaurant reservations home and away, last minute or in advance.

Find my Phone - Make sure you register on the new iCloud, but you may need to be on OS5 on your phone and Lion on your mac.  We found my son’s phone outside Yorkdale in the bushes and mine in New York in the hotel room I had checked out of.



Travel:

This is just a small taste and I will elaborate further shortly.  I have included a personal journey, a family favourite and a couple’s retreat.

Kilimanjaro - A trip of a lifetime and a personal growth journey.  I truly believe anyone can do it, but I would not have been successful without Alison Wiley and Angus Murray from Live Out loud adventures. www.liveoutloudadventures.com


Costa Rica - Our Family’s favourite vacation by far.  We rented a spectacular villa in the surfing town of Dominical through http://www.villasbytekoa.com. We zip-lined, road horses down to a spectacular waterfall, viewed wild life in the national park, learned to surf, did some cliff diving, white water rafting and discovered many a private beach front that disappeared at high-tide.  Overall, a tremendous vacation.

Napa Valley - Although, I could discuss favourite European trips we have loved, I thought I would mention a closer get-away.  We found a spot in Napa Valley that was a spectacular property complete with every indulgence and luxury we could possible think of.  We stayed at the Auberge du Soleil in Rutherford and I strongly recommend it. www.aubergedusoleil.com  Also, If you are so inclined, have 5 hours to spare and don’t mind the exorbitant bill you will receive, go to the French Laundry.  It is also a once in a lifetime dining experience.  Reserve 3 months in advance and dine early as you will be there for 4 or 5 hours.  I still dream about the tuna tartare and crème fresh cones offered as our amuse-bouche.



Recommended Book List

The Art of Racing in the Rain, Garth Stein – As you start this dog (Enzo)-narrated book, you question whether you will actually get through it and mentally note that the person who referred it to you might not have the same taste in novels.  A little perseverance pays off as the story of Denny, a struggling racecar driver, unfolds.  Denny’s tale of sacrifices, love and passion are sure to completely immerse you.

The Cat’s Table, Michael Ondaatje – A wonderful and exciting adventure story.  This is a tale about the awakening of a 10-year-old boy from Colombo in what is now Sri Lanka.  He is travelling to England on a luxury liner away from his boyhood home and life.  He and his new friends are able to witness and provide commentary on the adult world of class structure, gossip and the general struggles that plague society with amazing clarity.

Cutting for Stone, Abraham Verghese – An amazing and powerful story of love, hope, medicine and passion.  A mesmerizing tale of twin boys raised within the walls of Missing Hospital in Ethiopia forming their moral code, medical skill and compassion under volatile conditions and with great fortitude.

The Elegance of the Hedgehog, Muriel Barbery – The story of a concierge to an upper class apartment complex guarding a secret life and her association with an unlikely cast of characters.  A young resident struggling with her own identity happens upon this discovery and a tantalizing story ensues.

Far to Go, Alison Pick – The story of the rising power of Hitler and the Nazis from the view of a governess to an affluent Jewish family in Prague.  This is a sad tale that allows the reader the imagined view as an outsider and witness as well as an understanding of the workings of the Kindertransport.

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, The Girl Who Played with Fire and The Girl who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest, Stieg Larsson – The story of a Swedish computer hacker and a journalist and their quest for justice in an unconventional and often violent approach in a trilogy.  The three stories are real modern cloak and dagger fiction, that are not light, but, not deep and meaningful either.  Page-turners, if you like that genre.

The Help, Kathryn Stockett – This book is already a movie, but, it’s content is an exciting look into the history and development of the equal rights movement.  Centered in the American south, it is a story of an enlightened and educated young debutant who takes a stand in a society who demeans and degrades their ‘African-American’ nannies and housekeepers.

Little Bee, Chris Cleave – This is the type of story where you fall in love with the main character from the first page and frugally read the last pages in an effort to keep her in your life.  The tale is of a Nigerian girl, Little Bee, caught in a world fraught with oil struggles and war.  She becomes entangled in the life of a White British magazine editor, Sarah by an accidental incident.  Through a series of coincidences and her ability to speak the “Queen’s English”, Little Bee tells her story of struggle and a powerful trust in humanity that leads her quite naturally into the life and world of Sarah.

Mister Pip, Lloyd Jones – A story about a girl trapped in a war-torn world, who is inspired by a Dickens’ novel, the power of the words, imagination and hope.  This book reminded me of the influence of novels in young lives and motivated the rereading of Great Expectations – a powerful tale.

The Paris Wife, Paula McLain – The story of Ernest Hemingway’s first wife Hadley and their life in Paris together.  The novel starts with their meeting in the 1920s and follows their lives of adventure and indulgence in the world of artistic genius.

Sarah’s Key, Tatiana De Rosnay – A heart-wrenching and horrific story of the collection of the Jews in Paris, France during the Vel d’Hiv roundup.   The fictional tale of a Jewish young girl robbed of her childhood and the account of her life.

Secret Daughter, Shilpi Somaya Gowda – A sad story of a impoverished couple living in a town in rural India who are faced with heart breaking decisions in a society that value a son’s life over a daughter’s.  The story follows the couple’s endeavor to sustain hope and love in their life while carrying overwhelming regret and guilt.

This is Where I Leave You, Jonathan Tropper – This is a truly hilarious look at a very dysfunctional family that get together to mourn the loss of their father.  The troubles and tribulations that plague them, some dating back to childhood are brought to the forefront in this humorous and believable tale of confrontation and self-discovery.

Unbroken, Laura Hillenbrand – An unbelievable but true story of an American soldier and celebrated athlete in the Second World War.  The tale unfolds behind the enemy lines in Japan and is so unbelievable and totally enthralling, it is very hard to believe it is not fiction.

When God Was a Rabbit, Sarah Winman – This is a book filled with tragedy.  Elly narrates the story of her childhood with her brother and then their struggle with adulthood.  The theme of a childhood secret sets the tone for the book that includes child abuse, neglect and suicide in a surprisingly, often witty story.